I help single Christian women find and captivate the man God has created just for them.

And I know why you’re



I help single Christian women find and
captivate the man God has created
just for them.

And I know why you’re




Have you ever...

          ...wondered if God wants you to stay single FOREVER?


If you have a desire for love and marriage, be encouraged that God probably placed those desires in your heart. The Psalms say that if you delight yourself in the Lord, He will give you the desires of your heart.

It's time to stop asking IF you're meant to be married and to start asking HOW you can take steps to be married.



Letter from a Client


"Coaching with Michelle has been such a huge blessing!  I was doubtful and thought that I did not need help.  But, boy was I wrong.  There were some weeks when I sent her messages almost every day.  Her support, wisdom, prayers, and encouragement have made a huge difference not only with dating, but in my daily life.
I was just texting three men when I began coaching with Michelle.  And now I am about to get engaged.  Michelle taught me male language, and how to have fun and flirt.  She also helped me grow in my spiritual life and my self confidence.  I am a slow processor and she worked well with my learning style.  She seemed to be able to read my mind!
I recommend Michelle if you want help with dating and personal growth.  She is there for you and understands your pain and your triumphs." 

I know why you're single.


What you think is helping is actually hurting your chances to find love.


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...your journey towards the love life you've been dreaming about!

Online Course
The Christian Dating Playbook: 90 Days to Finding the One
My course helps women learn the secrets to male language, effective online dating, and how to create the IT factor of confidence.  
Packed full with over 40 modules. 
Private Coaching
Private weekly calls and real time, right when you need it daily coaching access.
Private coaching is an experience unlike anything when the most transformative results are desired. 
The Christian Dating Playbook is included!

"He put the ring on my finger Saturday. We are so happy. Thank you for all that you have done to coach me along the way. You are truly a blessing."

- Note from a newly engaged client

I’m Michelle Joiner: The Christian
Dating Coach.

I used to dream about being a wife and a mother. But I grew up in a strict Christian home and dating wasn't encouraged.

I was taught to be a good steward of what God gave me. So, I practiced the piano four hours a day, led worship at church, and studied hard.

I got my bachelors and masters from Johns Hopkins University in mechanical engineering, bought a house, traveled abroad... But it was the saddest time of my life.

With the help of my dating coach, I got the courage to meet more men, learn to be playful and flirty and believe I was high value.

That's when I found Caleb. We got married two years after meeting and had twin baby boys. It was worth everything.



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